would rather & had better

Preferences and strong advice.

The rules

  • "Would rather" + base verb, no "to": "I'd rather stay".
  • Preference about ANOTHER person: "would rather + person + past form": "I'd rather you didn't".
  • "Had better" + base verb warns of a bad consequence.
  • Comparing preferences: "rather X than Y".
  • "Had better" + base verb: "had better take".
  • Negative: "would rather not" + base verb.

Examples

  • I'd rather stay at home tonight.
  • I'd rather you didn't smoke in the house.
  • You'd better book now, or it will sell out.
  • She would rather work from home than commute every day.
  • You had better take an umbrella.
  • I'd rather not say.

Quick check

Pick an answer to see the rule behind it.

1.I'd rather _____ at home tonight.

2.I'd rather you _____ smoke in the house.

3.Which sentence gives strong advice with a warning?

4.She would rather work from home _____ commute every day.

5.Which sentence is correct?

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